The Extent of an independent and the dependent boss

The Extent of an independent and the dependent boss

Introduction 

This is a crucial statement a lot of people misunderstood because it sometimes seems the same, but don’t worry; I’m here to guide you through this sensitive subject in order to understand how it operates differently.

The future of our lives lies in our palm, and if we need a microscope to view those tiny pieces of information that can prepare us on how we can be independent in various fields and bring solutions to the questions that don’t have an answer, then it should be something we should try to understand before attempting to solve. The independent and the dependent boss are too valuable species depending on how fluently you understand it, but to further explain better, independent solutions can equip so many healthy lives in living an organized lifespan of reality than a dependent person would have a problem but can’t solve it because he/she doesn’t have control of thematic lives affairs.

Miss Aliday has been a hustler from day one. She always wanted to build her company and have people work for her, but you know what they said, “The goal isn’t easy.” All her efforts were grieving on her palms already and were left out of options until this.

Aliday is the only daughter of a civil servant and a petty trader who struggles every day to put food on her table and see her through college. Her parents believe that when Aliday goes to school and graduates, she will get a good job and then take care of her family!! Of course, that’s the dream of every parent. They have planned it well suit for her, and the only thing was for her to complete her degree so she will be able to be a daughter that can save them from poverty. 

It wasn’t easy because she understood what the world speaks and not her parents faith. But let’s see how it happens!!

After her youth service, she started searching for jobs that could at least pay her bills since she had none left to do that for her and her parents weren’t financially buoyant enough to cater for her needs anymore. No jobs were coming, so things became rough and tight for her. Even at that, she never gave up and didn’t compromise even on her situation. She was left with the last option and had to try if it would work!

Her marketing strategy was to build a brand where people could advertise their products and sell them to the masses, but she didn’t have the money (availability) to build that platform, so it wasn’t her fault. Building a website is not the problem, but creating it for the audience is the main cost because publishers have to pay to get it, but then again, she will have to pay to upgrade and do whatever comes from it. So the total amount of money she needed was $500 to clear all strategies. But where on earth will she get such an amount of money from? She began to tour the internet for solutions, but nothing was working. Then until she popped up on a home class tutor, and the pay was 50,000 (fifty thousand Naira) monthly. Lol! It was funny at first because that was nothing close to what she was looking for, but she had to accept it, and she started a tutorial class for homeschooling kids. 

Aliday was able to save certain figures of money that can help her ventilate her life!

The desired woman, the one who is the best for her life, always comes with protocols and struggles; everything seems too complicated for her. Sometimes she feels alone and cries out as loud as she could to help herself. Throughout her grief, she thinks the biggest challenge and mistake she had was why she couldn’t help herself. ”But hold to that, who understands the better living of mankind, and grant kindness to the weak who ‘solemnly’ cannot do it alone but find measures of indispensable courage and determination to achieve their aims.”

Those words were encouraging enough to strengthen her spirit and give her hope to affirm this magnificent grace of extraordinary life.

The hardest thing in life is to live without a helper, or rather, a supporter. “It pains to be alone,” she murmured to herself with this statement!

Every independent person must be aware that they are not alone because there’s this thing, ‘spirit,’ to back them up with the full strength of confidence that it is time for them to succeed. So they work out their best to fulfill their mission because they have no bearing fate except in aspects of their lives.

You must be pointed out to help those struggling spiritually with self-reliance, which you must give to pin down the level of metaphors you need as an inspiring boss to be reliant and capable in making your own decisions by validating a non-support system.

Catalyst of being independent 

1. You must be emotionally independent and be able to do things exceptionally quickly and effectively without double-checking for any approval. You can’t judge based on sentiment or mawkishness.

2. Time limit: Every independent woman knows her time limit and must set boundaries that can affect her life positively with the value of time spent on things that bring growth effortlessly into her daily routine.

3. Sober solitariness: She drew complex thoughts that can briefly lead to exertion and bring caution in staying in her lane of self-mind control. and focusing on only things to do with herself and entrenched large groups of multidimensional things.

4. Self-determination: An independent woman must be qualified to ease her thoughts of accelerating quantitative mind control without hesitation of being distracted by any negative form of consciousness of irrational fear. plate discipline and awareness of self-resoluteness to be able to succeed successfully as a capable, strong, awarded person in your region of being a palliative to sources of self-anxiety.

Control of self-perception:

This is the true version of determining people's control over your life, emotions, self-care and bringing down your self-esteem that you can’t figure out what to partake in your life, which can bring positive results, but rather being overthrown by people’s policies and preferences in which you can’t control your stability of self-esteem. because some external factors influence the dependent women by having challenges on thoughts and strengths of incapable results, which make them difficult to achieve anything but being dependent on other people. They are being judged by what they can’t achieve in resisting to understand what that means by taking advantage of their weaknesses.

Being oppressed in a state where you can’t contribute anything to the world but are scanned by subjecting them to intolerable beings that can be used as machines or weapons to solve their problems, which can only lead to spending money based on what you can give out to them. using them as tools for forms of political, economic, spiritual, scientific, sexual, sociological, etc., to create more wealth for themselves but smuggling them into their pockets for profit of their own benefiting aims.

The dependent women are called the carefree givers because you don’t make decisions on your own. You pay for your services without belonging to any class of people that believe they can change the world with their benefits of what they created to bring quantifiable value to society. They are tales usually written for their offspring, outlines to make them as laborious partners. ‘Give and’ take’—that is what I called the dependent rebids bosses.

To control your self-perception, you must define your self-esteem and evaluate your traits by exposing yourself to your internal and external characteristics. Don’t allow social, family, religious, and spiritual beliefs to dictate a role by shaping what and who you are that can bring change around you.

You must challenge every aspect of negativity in your mind that will recognize every critical, unrealistic thought that compels you to be a failure by depending on people for survival. Revive that feedback that has stamped in your mind that without others you can’t make it or have that beautiful dream you ever wished for. “Don’t be a dependent boss that forfeits people’s ambitions rather than creating their zone of elasticity of power.”

After so many attempts on surveys, Aliday drew her life’s plan and was able to calculate each time, minute, second, hour, day, month, and year to be added to her future details demands; she denied herself so much fun, luxurious nature, and expenses that couldn’t add value to what she drew for herself. Months and years pass by, and she was still pushing hard to clear her path into the land she always wanted. A few years later, after the struggles and hardships depriving her of all the enjoyment and happiness as a young lady, she was able to build her marketing brand company, where everyone now advertises their goods, businesses, and companies. It is now the global market for business products and proposals for the world market. Consistency, dedication, determination, self-confidence, commitment, and control of self-perception boost her self-esteem and make a life brand's successful outreach to all programs. A poor girl without any status now has a name the world is eager to download. 

Summary 

Life is a pan of frames desired and diluted in any form or formulation you might want it, but certainty must drive you through the choice between what you want or how much you want it, either ‘spree’ or fixated.

Work more closely than just overseeing sighting,to be able to choose perfectly how oriented and articulated you are to be your own personal space and accelerate your audience to your desired charisma.