What is your why!!
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| What is your why!! |
INTRODUCTION
What is your why is a very sensitive topic that shouldn’t be toyed with because a lot of people might be confused with this question and wonder where the why is coming from. Yes, what is your why is what you should ask yourself before you undergo any kind of these procedures, like surgery treatment, medical care, cosmetic surgery, political aspirations, motivational speaking, aspiring teaching, practical artistry, business ownership, pastoral services, writing a career, social work, etc. There must be a reason, and that quest is “why”.You have to be very optimistic about your why!!!! I had a very difficult time growing up as a child. I wanted to be successful by all means without depending on people, but yet obstacles and challenges were getting tougher and harder, and lots of times I hid to cry and asked God questions about why my life is so full of pain. My optimism was to be a great woman with power and wealth so as to help people around me and be happy. My days were getting into nights, no money, no ambition, no life. I drastically underestimated myself countless times. I was tired and devastated. At a point, I almost gave up because everything was scarring. Why would my life be ruined this way? The only support was from my parents, and I was tired of collecting from them…. I needed to give myself not receiving anything from them, but I had no choice but to keep hoping. I had vision and purpose but didn’t understand my why. My life was a nightmare; being alive was like hell to me!!!! no source of income and happiness, day by day, I ask God why I was created because I feel weak and hopeless… …. Adulthood comes with huge responsibilities, and everyone wants to see what’s happening in your life; they want to know how much money you have made!! The world wants to see you either successful or unsuccessful, but your family doesn’t care if the road of the journey is winding and twiddle; they just want you to have success, and that was my reason I needed to succeed by all means to help my family, who believe so much in me. But remember, nobody cares about your struggles but you, and that’s why you must be optimistic to understand the values and reasons you want to give to the world… when I started stating my desires of why I want to be a motivational writer and speaker I discovered so much about myself that I never knew before. I sat down the whole day thinking about my why, my interest, my purpose, my motivation, my resilience and my health. I started giving praises and gratitude to everything around me; my mental health became stable for the first time in a long while, and I felt peace within me, and immediately I realised what my why to the universe is. Things became more complicated than I ever imagined. Yes, I started my writing career, but then my writing was more complicated and complex, and I didn’t know where to start.
My head was full of stories, inspirational quotes, and lots of words but nowhere to begin. That was another hot journey of my life…. “Where will I start from? Where will I begin? How will I scope my words together, and how will I find that ‘hook’ that encapsulates my words of ideas? I didn’t know how to introduce my character or the stake of my storyline, whether fiction or memoir. But my focus was to be intrigued by whoever is reading my books so as to want to enquire more about the central conflict of my interests. At this point I started background research that I wasn’t ready to stop until I got myself published to my reader. My mind was determined to complete the work which I had begun. I explored my values and made it clearer and more professional. which equipped me to keep strong and reliable communication and commitment with people that believe I can do it, so it was easier for me to build my confidence in them and in me, and everything works out perfectly to the glory of God; my first article was created and published. My journey was getting inspired, and people started following me on all social platforms; calls for contracts started coming in and jobs to write educational content for them. And within a space of 6 months, my life became a balance, and all that I ever dreamed of became exactly like I always imagined. And today I have written 16 articles to the glory of God.
You must know the reason you want to feature in what makes you happy and why you want to do it; with that, it will define your personality and intrigue your audience to believe and trust in your work.
You must know the reason you want to feature in what makes you happy and why you want to do it; with that, it will define your personality and intrigue your audience to believe and trust in your work.
Things you must engage to understand your why.
1. Self Belief – Before you start any journey of your life, you must realise and understand why you want to develop that belief, even at your place of primary assignment. What’s your intake in that job? You must have faith in yourself before doing anything, and that can guarantee your trust in others and be confident enough to ensure a basic understanding of what you have. If you don’t believe in yourself, you can’t expect others to have faith in you. So self-belief is very vital and can help you achieve your goals.
2. Define your purpose – you can’t venture into any business without knowing the purpose of the product or services you are offering. You must draw a plan of what your goal is and the interests of your clients, then you calculate your profits and how much time it takes to deliver to your customers, and your values must be determined entirely based on what you present. This is applicable to defining your purpose before you go into any dream; know that your purpose must be a source of hope and inspiration to others.
3. Proper Resilience – if you are optimistic about your goals, you will ensure adequately that no matter where you have lost or how much you have lost, you will definitely break through that setback and give yourself the strength to overcome speedy recovery that will help you fight and grow stronger. So proper resilience helps in understanding your why and how to overcome your fear in your goals.
4. Good mental health – has a starter is natural to stress your mental state but not to an extent you make it a habit. Thinking less helps in building your mind and mental health issues and can affect whatever you are feeling about yourself if you engage it too hard by stressing it!! It will gradually become more difficult to control yourself because your mental state is not perfect and will stop you from developing your passion or having the ability to achieve your desires. “We don’t think much to resolve issues or focus more attention on it; rather, we study your weaknesses and know how to deal with it effectively than just thinking about what can trigger uncalled mental conditions.”
5. General Background Research – this aspect is all about speed. When you are dealing with your purpose in life, you must run proper general background research by using a system that can help you achieve that, support friends, and encourage people around you. Influence positive passion that will recognise your vision and settings and embrace fear so as to strive towards your future success. Create a strong foundation that can coordinate your vision into realistic goals and replace negative expectations with positive ones that will help you reach your search in building your business and goals successfully without fear because you know what your why is and why you want to succeed in your goals.
1. Self Belief – Before you start any journey of your life, you must realise and understand why you want to develop that belief, even at your place of primary assignment. What’s your intake in that job? You must have faith in yourself before doing anything, and that can guarantee your trust in others and be confident enough to ensure a basic understanding of what you have. If you don’t believe in yourself, you can’t expect others to have faith in you. So self-belief is very vital and can help you achieve your goals.
2. Define your purpose – you can’t venture into any business without knowing the purpose of the product or services you are offering. You must draw a plan of what your goal is and the interests of your clients, then you calculate your profits and how much time it takes to deliver to your customers, and your values must be determined entirely based on what you present. This is applicable to defining your purpose before you go into any dream; know that your purpose must be a source of hope and inspiration to others.
3. Proper Resilience – if you are optimistic about your goals, you will ensure adequately that no matter where you have lost or how much you have lost, you will definitely break through that setback and give yourself the strength to overcome speedy recovery that will help you fight and grow stronger. So proper resilience helps in understanding your why and how to overcome your fear in your goals.
4. Good mental health – has a starter is natural to stress your mental state but not to an extent you make it a habit. Thinking less helps in building your mind and mental health issues and can affect whatever you are feeling about yourself if you engage it too hard by stressing it!! It will gradually become more difficult to control yourself because your mental state is not perfect and will stop you from developing your passion or having the ability to achieve your desires. “We don’t think much to resolve issues or focus more attention on it; rather, we study your weaknesses and know how to deal with it effectively than just thinking about what can trigger uncalled mental conditions.”
5. General Background Research – this aspect is all about speed. When you are dealing with your purpose in life, you must run proper general background research by using a system that can help you achieve that, support friends, and encourage people around you. Influence positive passion that will recognise your vision and settings and embrace fear so as to strive towards your future success. Create a strong foundation that can coordinate your vision into realistic goals and replace negative expectations with positive ones that will help you reach your search in building your business and goals successfully without fear because you know what your why is and why you want to succeed in your goals.
Summary
In whatever you are doing in life, the best thing is to understand why you are doing it; that’s the only way you can accomplish your goals easier without losing any effort. Everything has a reason why God created it for our purpose, and we make use of it to help and better our lives. The same goes for you: to make a life of your own, you must first understand why you are venturing into that thing and why it is necessary to make it happen, and if doing so, it’s a sweet story that you will share someday…… Reshaping and recreating your optimism will help you realise what purpose you dive into that can make your dream work and can foster more growth and success in your career. What is your why? It should be the reason you step out to make that leap into your dream.
